This past week when I heard the Stephen R.
Covey had died, I couldn’t help but reflect on his book Seven Habits of
Highly Effective People. A few years
ago, the school district had me go to a week’s worth of training on the seven
habits. I then in turn had to spend
three days instructing teachers and administrators in what I had learned. I found it a little intimidating, because it
was mostly principals, but I feel like many of them were impressed with the
information that I gave them. I must say
that the principles taught there certainly changed my life. I have since encouraged my students to read
the book and implement the habits in their lives. The seven habits are:
Habit # 1
Be proactive
• Take initiative
• Manage change
• Respond
proactively
• Keep commitments
• Take
responsibility and have accountability
•
Have a
positive influence on results
Habit # 2
Begin with
the end in mind
• Define vision and
values
• Create a mission
statement
• Set measurable
team and personal goals
• Start projects
successfully
• Align goals to
priorities
•
Focus
on desired outcomes
Habit # 3
First things
first
·
Execute strategy
• Apply effective
delegation skills
• Focus on important
activities
• Apply effective
planning and prioritization skills
• Balance key
priorities
• Eliminate low
priorities and time wasters
• Use planning tools
effectively
•
Use
effective time-management skills
Habit # 4
Think
Win-win
·
Build high-trust relationships
• Build effective
teams
• Apply successful
negotiation skills
• Use effective
collaboration
•
Build
productive business relationships
Habit # 5
Seek first
to understand then be understood
·
Apply effective interpersonal communication
• Overcome
communication pitfalls
• Apply effective
listening skills
• Understand others
• Reach mutual
understanding
• Communicate
viewpoints effectively
• Apply productive
input and feedback
•
Apply
effective persuasion techniques
Habit # 6
Synergize
·
Leveraging diversity
• Apply effective
problem solving
• Apply
collaborative decision making
• Value differences
• Build on divergent
strengths
• Leverage creative
collaboration
•
Embrace
and leverage innovation
Habit # 7
Sharpen the
saw
·
Achieve life balance
• Apply continuous
improvement
•
Seek
continuous learning
In order to truly
understand these habits, you need to read the book. It gives detailed explanations of what he
means by these habits. Covey also has a
book out that has stories that complement the habits. Many of them are inspiration and well worth
the read. I’ve never met Covey, but I
believe that his books are inspired and influential throughout the
country. I think the leadership
principles there, if applied, would make this world a much more honest place,
and a world full of people with integrity.
I would recommend
this book to anyone.